There is one remedy – an antidote for unrequited love and insurmountable difficulties. Passion for life.
If the passion for life is stronger than the passion for a person or the passion for destruction, then love will never go away, it will manifest itself again and again, and difficulties will seem only a temporary obstacle.
We will never please everyone. But we can love our real selves. Together with the right to fear, anger even at loved ones, the right to the most rigid boundaries and the dirtiest desires.
Together with the right not to choose someone or something and the right to make a choice.
And we can realize: love happens not in spite of, but just like that. Less complex, less difficult, but still the same voluminous. There is love that makes you and life better. Self love. Love of life.
I needed to read this today. Thank you.
I can’t agree more. I freshly experienced unrequited love. So this totally makes sense to me. The first few days after I found out how I feel, which was similar to the way he felt, I couldn’t get out of my bed for like 4 days. But then eventually I got up. Not becuase I felt all ok and I moved on. But just because I realized that I don’t want to destroy my life this way. I needed help and I had only me to help.
It’s so beautiful. So true. So healthy to yourself.
Wow! So freeing! I had a semi obsession of a guy I had a magical experience with. I’m open 2 meeting again, but only if it aligns. 5 years ago me wouldn’t believe I’m saying this…I was a prisoner in the idea of the relationship and not letting my guide down…and allow myself 2 be just seen. You are you for a reason so why hide that away from someone if you desire a soul connection. Shallow relationships are fun for a short while but they are not fulfilling…it’s all for show, games, weak love. Thanx for this 😘