New Year’s Eve is approaching, and each of us will guess something cherished under the chimes. How to make a wish so that it will certainly come true in the new year?
More than one article has been written about how to make a wish correctly, more than one video has been shot, and many books have even been written. But, despite the abundance of information, the question remains: how to make plans to come true?
- Someone focuses more on the “ritual” part of the guessing. You need to write correctly, with the correct pen, on the correct paper, and then do something with this paper, and then your wish will definitely come true.
- Someone thinks that the very formulation of desire is more important. Do not use the “not” particle, talk about what you want as if you already have it.
- The third is closer to the coaching approach: we do not want and do not dream, we set goals for ourselves, break them down into tasks and slowly move towards what we have planned.
All approaches are good if they work. But today, on New Year’s Eve, I will share with you a little trick, a life hack, which I personally use to make my wishes come true.
We work miracles
We often want something big: love, acceptance, an apartment, a car, our own home, a successful project, etc. And that’s great!
I believe that a person who is able to dream of something big and ambitious has every chance of achieving this.
But! It takes a lot of time and effort to get something big. This often demotivates us: we want-want-want, but the dream is still not fulfilled and does not come true.
We may not even notice that we have already traveled a long way towards what we want. We burn out and give up on the dream.
I suggest you do one tricky thing.
Keeping in mind that great good and bright that you want to get from life, think: what a small thing, a small random event could initiate the fulfillment of your dreams.
And make a wish not about that big, big one, but just about this small one.
Let’s take a look at this life hack with an example.
I had a client, a young single woman. Naturally, she dreamed of great and bright love. She went on dates, but the Same One never met or met.
In our work, we with her focused on what she does not like in those gentlemen with whom she spends the evenings.
It turns out that my client lived in the suburbs, the dates were all held in the capital, and the men were not interested in how she would get to her house, although they parted, naturally, late.
It hurt her internally, for some reason it was important to her. “Now, if only there was a person who accompanied me home! I would gladly go on a second date with him, ”she said.
What have we done with her? We have shifted the focus of attention from the ideal and beautiful One to something very small: a man should take her home after a date.
Soon such a man appeared. He went with her first by metro, then by train, then by minibus, and then he went on foot and brought her home. My client didn’t like the man much that evening.
But since she got what she had in mind, she decided that she would meet him at least one more time. They have now been married for several years.
This is the whole secret: we keep in our head the big thing that we want in the end (light and pure love), but we think of something small that can potentially lead us to this (the man who leads us home after the date).
Little things happen more often and more readily than big things. Therefore, it is important to think of the right little thing that will start something big.
Here’s a wish-making life hack.
Happy New Year, everyone!